Women must never ask men questions
“what are you thinking?
“Men are most afraid of women invading their heads, and he doesn’t want to make you angry, so the answer is neither, nor the answer.
In the face of his embarrassment, you will feel that you are not asking for yourself, so give him peace and let him dream.
”Do you remember what day it is?
“It always surprises him, he will nervously” search “what is the important day today: acquaintance?
Go to bed?
. At the same time he would ask himself: “I don’t even remember such an important day, it will definitely irritate her. Besides, does it mean I don’t know this feeling at all?
“Some other girls will ask again,” Do you remember what I wore that day? ”
You are advised not to be extremely embarrassed. He can’t remember just because men mostly regard you as having an evolving relationship, not a series of days.
”Do you say she is pretty?
The man looked at it as a minefield and was shocked step by step.
He knew in his heart, in fact, you were asking, “Is she better than me?
You must see through; is it true?
It’s not looking for “destruction”.
He had to avoid heavy things: “Dear, don’t ask this silly question, I only see you!
“What about the dress I bought for you?”
Sure enough, when a man didn’t like a certain piece of clothes that his girlfriend bought him, he had a headache.
Say you like it, and your girlfriend will ask why you never see him wearing it; if you do n’t like it, it will obviously cause trouble; finally saying “missing” will cause a series of complaints.
If you have never seen him penetrate, you better not mention it is the best policy.
”My period has passed 10 days.
“It would scare him!
Unexpected pregnancy, there is really no effective reassurance.
Unless you do diagnose, you must not scare him, because he will worry about your relationship with you in the future, he really does not want to take any responsibility prematurely.
”When will you meet my parents?
“Most men are afraid to see” Taishan “, but it is a matter of time.
You have to help him overcome the obstacles, you may wish to use the following simple tricks: A before the parents, let him have enough time to prepare psychologically, do not notify him at the last moment; B arrange some short gatherings, do not let him feelToo painful and uncomfortable; C sincerely cooperates to make him pass smoothly.
”Have you thought about our future?
“In this short sentence, he will feel that your relationship is too serious.
Listening in his ear, it became “It’s time, you make a promise!”
“So he felt pressured, persecuted, and then thought of getting married and having children, which made him feel grown up, responsible and mature . all the things men fear most.
Think about it, women can easily blurt out these words, but when the relationship between them is not mature enough, and you have not thought of completely designing the future, some words can change the impact, so “be careful and act” is also a woman’s wisdom.